call me peter Okay this is how it is, i withdrew from university and returned home because i couldnt cope with the semister due to several reasons, i came back home and i was having a bad argument with my parents for a couple of days i have a long distance girlfriend, who i had very bad trust issues with, we have been together for 5 years this one time a friend came in to my room, he was drunk and 17, he called my gf on skype by himself trying to talk to her, i said no, but then i just felt like letting him since he seemed harmless, he called and started smooth talking, i made him cut the call and asked him to call and apoligize again, he did it, btw during their conversation they added each other on facebook, where as me and my girlfriend arent friends on facebook, because of several reasons (she was probably afraid i would question who she hangs out with and stuff) i made her delete him after he left. then i found out later on that she texts him saying that "i have nothing against you, he will be mad and i dont want anything happening between you guys" anyway she didnt inform me about it which is quite hurtful, that she sent that message to him, and he added her back on facebook but she rejected,
anyway after i moved home and the situation wasnt great i was trying to get her to talk to me herself so that i could open up to her about my situation, but she was too busy with her family and cousins at that time, despite knowing my situation she didnt try to help, i got frustrated and i didnt want that kind of relationship where she wasnt worried about my state or would wanna talk to me about it, i tried to tell her that i might not be able to support her, which is why we should probably break up, she tried telling me its going to be okay but she didnt put much effort in it, since i agreed with her right away she didnt feel the need to enquire. i was upset, and i wanted to breakup again thinking she wouldnt take care of my feelings, she didnt give a shit the second time, then suddenly she called me on skype and she tells me this "i went out with my cousins got drunk like always, and i got raped and i dont know how it happened i dont remember much, my cousin just got touched but i was raped" she kept saying she doesnt remember because the weed had roofies in it i was devastated, i asked her if they kissed her she said "yes" i got mental said horrible things to her since i was feeling emotionally abandoned already, like "you deserved it why didnt you keep in touch with me!" "it wasnt rape bla bla" she says she has got "enough" people hating her already, not to make her hate her even more, and how im useless, she hung up on me, the entire night i was beating myself up about it, feeling bad about the rape and everything, i wake up then she called me again crying about it, i asked her if they kissed her again she said "no" it was two different replies two different situation anyway then i got really upset, i consoled her regardless of my doubts, she was okay, then i called her after, she was around her cousin and her cousin asked if it was me she was talking to me, she muted me straight away and told her cousing something, then she unmuted me and i thought it was dodgy, so i told her that she was lying and i hung up blocked her, she called me today and i asked her the whole story, she said he kissed her and touched her down there, and the guy said it was okay, she disagreed then he raped her, i cant help thinking she has kissed him herself maybe it got out of hand i dont know, im dying here because my education is fucked right now and with this happening and my parents being upset, what the fuck should i do?
the whole story seems a bit odd to me first because why would her cousin get touched and she got raped? and why was she isolated from them anwyay when she got raped? she mustve been alone with the guy and i think they got alone to make out and stuff, and nothing happened to her cousins but she got raped on the side there while doing it, anyway im having to deal with it and i dont know how because we are still talking I want to know the truth, how should I go about this?