Friggin hell this is giving me a different perspective on things.
My most recent ex- of 1.5 years went to her friend's bday party last summer (in her hometown, I was in the city)
I was having a guy's night and she was sending me strange texts, that were not making sense, then at like 6:30am I get one, something about not sleeping at all?
She came by the next day in the evening (after the party) was acting distant (red flag) then she told me in private she "thinks" some one gave her mdma.
Relationship goes on, september, october, im getting little bits of information from that party.
Long story short: her story didnt make sense: she claims 1) a lot of her friends werent there 2) she didnt know a lot of people, it was mostly the host's friends (who is two years younger) 3) Her ex-best friend's (no longer friends, drama?) sister gave her water that "tasted strange" which later the sister said "I thought you wanted to be on my level its mdma" 4) my ex said shes done it before so said whatever and continued to party.....
Then later I am told (October-ish) that she drank the water from her ex-best friend's sister, and doesnt remember the night..... Then she tells me this couple was there --that are known to have been accused of drugging ppl and they may have done something... She then claimed to have some flashbacks of being in a car....etc?
AS ALL OF YOU CAN SEE: at this point, the information given is not logical.
I am currently in a post-grad medical program (November we started learning about narcotics) DATE RAPE = No memory DATE RAPE = No taste in water DATE RAPE = the next day you are weak as hell in bed (doesnt make sense how she could drive to me the next evening)
Regardless. Since that party, and the months following she was needy, always wanted me over, very distant at times, then eventually she started losing interest in me, didnt want to have sex as much, etc etc we broke up, now shes with a new guy...1 months after our breakup.
Rape/Drugs, whatever she changed and I was a beta blue bitch wasting my time and money on her. I lost frame, shes with a new guy now, not looking back on me.