Oh you didn’t, I just wasn’t sure if my first comment didn’t convey my thoughts correctly. And I’m trying to explain it from a been in those shoes perspective. I have been the girl who felt like it might be a good idea because I too like the idea of girls... but then the thought of another girl doing things to my boyfriend or him having sex with her literally made me sick to my stomach. And I would feel jealousy bubbling beneath the surface even imagining it. And if it helps you feel any better, the idea of a girl was purely just sexy and felt risqué but never was about me wanting to date a girl or leave my boyfriend (now husband) for a girl. I’m glad we never went through with it because I don’t think I would’ve gotten over the emotional damage it would’ve done and my “fantasy” of messing around with a girl wouldn’t be worth it. So it’s fun to talk about it or the ideas of different scenarios but we know that it’s not something we will ever really do.