Girls on tinder always interested in relationships but I want ons. Need a different perspective.

Go sexual as soon as possible, even in the opener or in your bio if needed. You also want the mentality of filtering these girls out.

How to filter girls on dating apps

I just recently came out of a 4 year LTR after finding TRP a few weeks ago and decided to practice some of the TRP mentalities on tinder and see how they went, I was very surprised but I can't deny their success.

Mentality going in

There is a whole range of girls on dating apps like Tinder or POF, they can range from narcissistic attention whores who just love guys showering them with affection, the girl that doesn't get a lot of attention and just uses it as validation, might just have a shitty boyfriend who doesn't pay attention to her, the girl who just enjoys talking to people, to a whole list of other bullshit that you aren't interested in.

Take the same approach to these apps as you would going out and pick up girls. 150% yourself and you are going to have quite a few girls just completely shut you down or stop talking to you. But, the ones that don't are the ones you are looking for and will be totally into you.

With this method I've found 3 girls in three weeks down for 3 ways with girls, 10+ into being dominated, a few into BDSM and a lot of other variety in kinkiness. I have also had a ton of girls just completely stop talking to me, but the key is, I'm not going to be interested in those girls anyways so all I'm doing is saving myself time and maximizing my return.

Step 1: Set the tone - Sexualize as soon as possible, preferably in bio. I have long hair and my bio is, " Pull my hair and call me pretty" and just on that I'll get quiet a few girls that message me first. The key to this guide is, the more brazen you are, the more you'll get intense responsive from girls actually into you and will weed out the ones you aren't interested in quicker.

Step 2: Opener Have a ridiculous opener, role play, make up some shit, neg her, anything but "Hey", "whats up?". You realize how many guys probably message this girl with that boring ass line? /r/Tinder is a great place to get ideas. One of my favorites is, "Marry one, fuck one, kill one; Me, Hitler, Me again"

Step 3: Roleplay

If you have sexualized the convo skip to step 4, If not. Roleplay something crazy, agree and amplify mentality. One of my favorites is, "So i'm looking to get married, become alcoholics and have the dysfunctional & abusive family I've always dreamed of, you down?" The key is to add something in it that you can lead to sexualizing and also have the, "me" mentality, this is something you are looking for that she must qualify herself on.

If she says yes, "So your into being dominated?" If she says no, processed to qualification.

Step 4: Qualification

If she is not down for anything you say, regardless of where you are completely fucking with her, or dead serious, she owes you. When ever she disagrees with something, even, "I like cats" you reply with, "well fuck, I'm a dog person, Idk how we are going to ever make this work, wanna see if you can make it up to me?" If you are familiar with simplepickup, be polarizing.

She'll reply back with, "Oh ya, hows that?" or "what do you want?", "What can I do?"

Then just go with a simple but ridiculous(agree and amplify mentality) one liner, "Buttstuff?", "Girl, girl, guy?", "swallow?"

This is the filtering point, she'll either be respective to this or you will never hear from her again, either way you win. She likes you and is down or finds your boldness funny, she'll reply, if she isn't you just saved a bunch of time.

Continue the qualification as long as you like, I find it very good for practicing self amusement but at any time now you can ask for her number, if she is still talking to you, it's pretty much guaranteed now.

After you get the number

This is where my theory vastly differences from core TRP theory. With this filtering process, you have pretty much guaranteed a girl that is really into you. TRP will tell you to text only for logistics now and, if viable, you should meet as soon as possible but I for example am meeting a girl tonight that is 50mi away so we've had a bit of a logistics issue for the past 2 weeks, more on her in a minute.

Well, a face to face approach and number is much more memorable and personal than a tinder number. So you need to keep up the momentum of her thinking about you. You are also effectively not wasting your time because you can set up your frame and mentality with her just via texting. You are effectively building the stage of your encounter when it happens, building anticipation & teasing. If you have read "Sex God Methods" then you can relate to what I'm doing.

One of the things I look for in a tinder girl is if she likes being dominated, this gives me a whole range of things to do to set her into the mentality of one, fantasizing about me and two, getting into the sub mindset and comfortable with me.

As soon as I get a girl reasonably comfortable with me and find out she likes being dominated, I will quickly lead into, "Well lets start the dominating right now, why wait?" or I'll lead up to it with, "Do you like being told what to do?", *"You like doing it in places you shouldn't?". *

For here you can go with a whole range of things, if you don't feel much trust or connection from her, just go with something simple like;

"I'm going to text you randomly, at any time, the word "_" and when you get it, I want you to "_"(I usually go with kegels) reply back that you are doing it and do not stop till I txt back and allow you to stop."

Or if you are a bit more brazen, ask her if she is somewhere that is inappropriate for her to have sex, be touching herself, thinking of sexual things, etc. Work, school, etc. If she is, then command her to get something, put it in her, do kegels with it while talking to people, etc. Get creative with it, have fun.

The key to this though is, it isn't wasting time just talking about idle bullshit, you are building a sexual fantasy of your dominance and what you are going to be doing with her. Obviously, still value your time, don't blow up her phone, don't spend hours doing this, just maybe a quick 30min conversation of dominating her and then say you have some stuff you have to do. If she starts getting to talking about personal stuff just say this topics is to complicated or deep and we can discuss it when we meet. One, that builds even more anticipation and curiosity and two, your are building your frame even more.

If you disagree with this idea that's fine, you may have plates already and it would be a waste of your time, I'd recommend this for a hard case beta that is wanting to work or explore the mentality and actually success you can have with a women and being dominate. Or someone who might just be looking to finding a girl that is a little more kinky than what you currently may have. I for one though have a first date with a girl tonight that has been finding girls on tinder for me to have a three way with, got her to get off at her work and send me pictures of it and will be wearing a remote controlled vibrating panties for our first date so take that as you will. Is she a quality girl worth dating? Who knows, I'll find out I guess but I'm definitely going to have an interesting night.

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