Girls of Reddit, whats a seemingly small habit guys can have that impress you?

Chronically not getting a second date generally means one of two things:

  1. You're desperate. People can smell when you're desperate, and it's not at all appealing. To fix this, you need to bump getting a woman down a couple pegs on your priority list. It'll put both of you more at ease if you aren't a man on a mission, which lets you build a better rapport faster and makes follow on dates more likely.
  2. You're not bringing a lot to the table, either because you aren't selling yourself properly or you just don't have much to sell in the first place. You need to both be interesting and signal that you're interesting. If you aren't the first you'll never get anywhere because they'll rightly get bored of you fast, just like you would get bored of someone who did nothing but snapchat endlessly. If you aren't the second, then you're doomed to a string of first dates because another guy is able to market themselves better and catch her attention. You can almost think of it like a store: for repeated customers you need to have a good display and stuff they actually want to buy.
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