For me: It's been over eight years since I've been in a real relationship.

Six years since I've been with anyone physically.

Other than that, about four years ago I made out with some girl at a bar one time. I was actually really fucked up and not in the best place, because she pretty clearly said stuff like "so what's going on here?" and "well I'm gonna go home, what about you?" and I kinda just let it slip away.

We had nothing in common, and a mutual friend had kind of pushed us into it, but in hindsight it probably would have been a healthy experience for me to go home with her. I've been 100% alone for years now and my confidence isn't the best.