Came to this sub after i met an INFJ who seemed click really well with me. We had quite some stuff in common but also were quite different. But sadly it didnt last long. We never properly understood each other. I tried, fucked up, got doorslammed :) And reading more here it became clear that nobody really likes infps :p Its understandable. It can be hard to wrap your head around something so different (for me at least).

About INFPs We want peace too :p ideal world would be where everyone can be at PEACE. And trust me almost all of us just want to fit in and have tried it again and again before giving up. Its extremely draining and its a constant effort to try to match others while you have a lot going on inside your head. Its not that INFPs dont value fitting in, INFP wants inner peace and an INFP cant be at peace by trying to match others. They need to find somewhere where they can be themselves.