Going back to condoms 6 years in after NEVER using them? Opinions.

Yeah I have some insight. Your partner sounds selfish as hell. Sorry if that comes off strong but I found myself bothered reading your post. The man has enjoyed 6 years of condomless, raw sex... one of those times resulting in an accidental pregnancy as you stated. His 15 minutes of pleasure in the bedroom (or however long he lasts) should not have to come at the expense of your body undesirably suffering for 9 months. You said it yourself, your body goes through enough, and in my opinion, he should be more willing to help you. I don’t think it will kill him to throw some latex over his penis. Scratch that... I know it won’t kill him (unless he has a severe latex allergy). I myself (23M) don’t know much about birth control or IUDs, but what I do know is you need to find a way to prevent pregnancy, and condoms truly are the simplest solution. And if he can’t handle that then he can go back to using his hand.

My main question though is why you are you putting his sexual feelings before your own emotional feelings? It sounds to me as though you’re more considerate of his wants (raw sex) than he is of yours (all of which you stated in your post). I obviously don’t know your relationship but it bothers me that (strictly in this scenario) there’s no sense of give and take on his part.

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