I feel you so hard. I'm a little younger, 31, but still. I want to know someone for at least a year before moving in, at least a year before getting married, at least a year before having kids. So that's 3 years minimum, and honestly 5-6 seems more realistic. Then I'm 36-37 trying to have babies and ughh I don't know what time has in store. I have faith for both of us but it's definitely not easy. It doesn't help that we talked on the phone today about our son (who was adopted so it's not like I'm actually raising our baby unfortunately) and it was just so... easy. I hate talking on the phone but an hour passed like it was nothing. I WISH I could just go full NC with him.