But don’t you see that what you’re doing is kinda similar to anti abortionists. What you’re describing is yet another way to shame a woman for sexual choices she makes. In the real world bad people don’t tend to come with warnings. In fact they’re normally very manipulative and good at pretending.

As long as the community is not willing to step in financially when the father opts out this will create just another reason for woman to chose abortion over pregnancy.

So you see bodily autonomy of the mother on the one hand and a fathers role once the child is born on the other have really nothing to do with eachother. With your argumentation you simply try to make a case for asshole men and put all responsibility on the women.