Good at analysing systems and working out a solution to a problem but not at implementation.

If you are young, which I am too, its mostly what almost all people think like. That is why people travel, and take random jobs. Date questionable people. To find and learn themselves. Its actually something I actually had to think about why people did that. You can't think your way to understanding. You can think all you want about a medicine but you need to do drug testing.

Over time you know which doors you MUST take to get to a room, that you need to solve then open the next door. Or rather which doors to not take.

If you need any one tip. It is that if something is wrong.. let it be known to others, and let it be known how you want it to be done. Establish this control in every aspect of your life.


I found out a lot about my parents heritage. top 15th most dangerous country. Way worse then the ghettos of America. And is why growing up was how it was.. I am also asian, so western people view me in some stereotypical way, or think I am being aggressive because of some random incorrect view. When I talk I learn that I need to set up the grounds to how they view me. Tell them about my up bringing, why I think things.. so they don't misunderstand.

I politely advise you at least travel and take chances that don't have bad repercussion. Maybe be careful about dating some questionable people.

Try baby steps. All INFJ's talk in long abstract speech. Tell yourself you will have a clear message to your words.

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