The characteristics of a ‘bad guy’ is appealing because they’re confident, a leader. The strong qualities of a good head of the family. But unfortunately they’re too much that way that they’re controlling and not nice which makes them bad.
The characteristics of a ‘good guy’ is polite, kind. Which initially makes them look like a push over, they’re wanting to please you so that make the women feel like a leader which is uncomfortable. So makes us feel like the good guy is too nice and too good.
It’s good to find a balance in between. A genuine polite and confident guy is good.
Bad guys like good girls because they can control them. So good girls have a big selection of bad guys. Normal guys are normally in a relationship. The nice guys are too nice. So the confident bad guy is the appealing choice.
That’s my experience. Got through a lot of bad guys to finally go for the nice guy and he’s lovely and such a good husband!