People who don't know me in real life aren't given my last name, maiden name, etc., and my online presence is ridiculously lame (I've made sure that's the case - yes, there is a story there) so I'd be surprised if any people I've met online have successfully Googled me. It's not impossible, though. There is one AP from Reddit who might have just enough info to find me. If he has, he hasn't mentioned it.

Honestly, I've only Googled my woman AP because she told me her full name. She's not married, so nothing to lose.

The married men? I assume the names and/or occupations they give me are fake. Also I rather enjoy the anonymity... why spoil that fun for myself?