I would honestly cry if this happened this is my worst fear. I don’t see the point in staying in a relationship where u genuinely have no halal outlet for your desires that’s legitimately a recipe for disaster. Celibacy is for single Muslims till Allah blesses us with a spouse, not after nikkah. If you’re doing everything u can to please her, even if her libido is low she should compromise and get you off in other ways, that’s the least she can do unless she’s like sick with a disease like cancer or something then yes there’s a legitimate excuse. Otherwise there’s no excuse for her not helping u get off I’m sorry brother. as a Man U can’t just wake up tommorow and say I don’t feel like providing I’m not going to work this month. U see how stupid that sounds? Similarly she’s refusing to give you what’s your right. If she has low libido and can’t have intercourse that’s ok because for some women they genuinely can’t help that and u can’t force it 1) because it’s wrong 2) even if u somehow convinced her she might be too dry and it could cause harm to both of u, so if she has low libido it’s one thing to not do PIV and another for her to literally not offer to help u get off. I’m sorry but you’ve been deluded to think you should just be patient and that she’s not obliged to do anything. Just as u accept responsibility as a man when u sign the nikkah papers that you’ll provide for her as long as u are able, she needs to relieve your desires because u have no outlet. The fact that you’re on this sub is proof that this is not normal because it means you’re contemplating porn or masturbation, meaning your marriage to her is effectively useless, nikkah literally means contract that makes intimacy permissible, you’re basically single but having to financially and emotionally support another woman. I know u said u love her bht this isn’t sustainable, either u will go crazy or most likely, u will end up commiting zina or watching porn or masturbating. The least she can do is help u with her hands…