I got drunk and broke up my daughter's upcoming wedding

Man I'm sorry you are being treated so horribly. Sounds like you were being a great dad (still are too) helping out with the wedding and putting on a front. I have a hard time seeing this as your fault. As others said, there was something going on behind the scenes already if they called the wedding off over that.

Unfortunately, that makes you a scapegoat - and her fiancé gets to avoid the wrath now...

I think things will improve over time. You've already done everything you can to make up for doing very little. I hope she comes around - her being around your ex right now probably isn't doing you any favors either. I am not in a position to give advice, but thought you should at least have a little outside perspective on things. Good luck. Try not being so hard on yourself about this.

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