That’s great that you are wanting to improve yourself. I’m not always the most feminine person either, not a Tomboy, but just not super girly or anything and that’s ok. I have found it helpful to find people who style i like, taking inspiration from Pinterest, instagram, etc and making note of what i like about their hair/makeup/clothes/mannerisms and seeing if i can find a way to make what i like work with my own style and personality. I never like to spend much money on any of this since some of it is experimental , so i personally like to thrift shop for the new style and get creative. I find it fun and have found some cool new ideas and styles for myself including things i didn’t think i could “pull off”. I love to cook and bake too and think it’s a great skill to have.