I got to so used to never bringing up that I am a girl that one of my good online friends thought I am guy for nearly have a year

I don't know why I am kinda confused about this... I experience this rare occasion as trans girl too, but that cis woman get "exiled" from the gaming community like "us" is just "reddiculus."

But I am super happy that you found some good friends.

But still, when I ask people if they mind my gender before playing with them (games like csgo where you depends on them for 40 minutes) they mostly reply with "I don't care".

Even if it's not meant to be offensive, the choice of words just shows you what kind of person they can be (on a surface level.)

Is it so hard to write: "Don't worry, you are welcome here" "I don't mind, let's have some fun!"

What do we usually get:

"R u a grill?" "u single?" "I don't care" (later trying to seduce you)

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