We see here that OKCupid did a study that shows most women think 80% of guys are 'below average' attractiveness.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

Many women say that it's not fair to compare porn stars to regular women, but we see here that they ARE regular women with good makeup and occasionally implants. http://imgur.com/gallery/ynkv8

These are decidedly 'average' looking women before the masterful makeup jobs. I would say many of them are actually below average attractiveness (like, 50% average not 80% average... ahem.) So the problem can't really be about how hot they are vs. regular girls. All they are doing is being better at makeup. "But they're skinny!" Yeah no campaign will ever make fat hot. (sorry)

I think we all agree some of these porn stars get disrespected quite a bit, and I can understand this argument. There are some things that turn me on that I would never do to my wife because I respect her far too much. But why do you care what guys who won't be getting laid often watch? I've seen women with a straight face say that facials are horrible but not blink an eye when a women is coming all over a mans face as he goes down on her. Somehow that is 'different'.

The guys that these girls 'have had it with' can replace them in an hour with a phone app. So, good luck changing this behavior. And the harder to try to change the guys that don't even meet your ridiculous requirements these days (you know, the under 80% makes-less-than-you invisible guys), the more you make them resent you for not only rejecting them but telling them what they can and can't do while they sit alone on date night. All you do is push them further and further away from you into the arms of Donald Trump types.