My parents also use me as their therapist. Mum constantly telling me about how bad her sexual relationship with my dad is. My dad cheated millions of times and still feels like he didn't do anything that big. He of course chose to use religion to avoid being accountable of his mistakes. And always telling me he is going to kill himself because mum doesn't want anything to do with him. Mum keeps bringing up divorce but she isn't really fighting hard for it. Daily daily they both try to prove to each other who's more religious. My mum is always angry she doesn't even have any friends and she wants to control my life forever. She went to the extent of asking me to live with her together with my husband. Obviously this is not something I'd consider. Their problems were valid but my own problems were brushed off as childish or I kept on being told God is the answer. Well, it's been hell if I was to be asked. I've been a prisoner of my own family that I think we're more of terrible roomates than people who share blood.