Guardian/Grandmother lied about birth control

Thank you. I am sure It is money driven. That and her mental illness. Abandonment issues besides self harm. But grandma did not take her for shot I am sure. Personal injury attorneys take a percentage of what is awarded, so no money out of my pocket IF there was a case. I really did want it put in a trust my son would have for child support if needed. He does want custody. As I mentioned in another post, she is already using it as a pawn. Jump through this hoop or else. My son is refusing to jump. She already has a CPS case open on her for stabbing herself when he broke up with her the first time. Incidentally around the date of conception. She has cheated twice before. After first time we talked. I give my sons my opinions, but their life is their journey to learn. I said once a cheater always a cheater. Though this IS a small backwards "old boys club" town I have some hope. A friends son did time in County Jail for 'shrooms. I found the charges odd, but hey, it's Indiana, lol. When he got out found out his girlfriend who had baby while he was in jail was using drugs. I know spice was one. He went to court and now has sole custody of his son. My son has a clean record. Never been in the system. Their family ALL have been in system. Mainly drugs. I do research and ran all that I know are direct family. One thing I haven't mentioned. I haven't started to research it but now with pregnancy it is imperative. Possibility they are blood related. Would probably be a few generations down but it still bothers me. I mentioned when they started seeing each other. I spoke to grandmother about my concerns then. Another lie from her. We share same last name. My father's side. Girlfriend and I also share same middle name. FAMILY name but my mother spelled it differently. Her's is spelt family way. My father's family lived in a town close by. I know little of them as my father was absent from my life. I did know the name of the town. She said no, not from there. Little research I did recently and they ARE. The hits just keep coming, lol.

Thank you for your advice and mind words. I may be in the wrong forum but I have always disliked women who trap men. They give ALL of us a bad name. My son is not computer inclined. He is mechanically gifted. Took a carburetor to school in first grade for show and tell. Tore it down and put it back together, lol. He was going to go to technical school for Diesel Mechanic Certification. So I will soon be dropping this thread but I told him about this site and the different subjects and support and advice I have been given. He has asked me to stay active and search regarding custody for him. Thank you to any and all who have responded. I appreciate all your input.

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