Not a feminist= not believing in women’s rights in any capacity (like having the right to vote or have our own bank accounts, for example).

I'm not a feminist due to this kind of hyperbolic bullying that has become commonplace in contemporary feminism. When a movement is defined so broadly (a la "If you think women are people, you're a feminist!" or some such), it's hard to take seriously. There's a lot more to it than that, which I think you know. Being a woman myself, I believe in women having rights, but dislike many modern-day feminist attitudes, ideals, and especially behavior. It's a label I've come to associate with a condescending, obnoxious attitude. Like telling someone that just because they don't align with the 2019 "feminist" label means they think women shouldn't be allowed to vote or have bank accounts.