A guy (33) I met OLD added me (35f) on Instagram to prove he was real, but then his account disappeared. I feel like he blocked me, but we later FaceTimed, and he still seems very interested in meeting. What gives?

I only talked about my own physical and monetary qualities as well, just because those are the ones that people can easily quantify. Of course there’s more to it than that!

As for leading with sex, well, we met on Tinder. I’ve noticed almost everyone seems to be pretty forward in that regard. I don’t think I’ve ever gone more than 2-3 dates without having sex.

I mean, I do want sex too. I was single for three years, 1.5 years of which I was isolated alone with no one but my infant child. I went 2.5 years without sex, and now that I’m back into dating, I’m horny AF. I’m not going to say no if a hot guy wants to bang me. Lol

I’m not in a rush for anything serious, either. I just want it to be a possibility. Like if the feelings are there, we go with it. That’s my philosophy. I’ve had many relationships start this way. But that’s not really what I’m asking about.

I guess being blocked just seems like a pretty intense reaction. Like if he had just unfriended me after we FaceTimed, and said he wanted to wait until we knew each other better to follow each other on social media, that would’ve been fine. But I only block someone if I’m no longer going to talk to them or if they’re an asshole, or if they scare me. I’ve never had someone block me and then continue making plans to meet me. It’s weird, right?

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