Is this guy intense or am I self sabotaging?

I just had to break it off with a guy who was ready to marry me before I ever said hello.

After 5 hours of knowing each other he was ready to be in a relationship. I told him lets just chill and get to know each other, I'm not looking to jump into a relationship. He said ok.

Over two weeks he messaged me everyday all day long, asking me if he could come see me everyday. When I said no or if I didn't reply soon enough I'd come back to 8 messages of him freaking out and guilt tripping me and asking why.

He forced me to take his braclet day 1 and talked about fate. He also told me that he refused to speak to any other "females" while talking to me.

I was willing to get to know him because he wasn't like a lot of the asshole guys I usually got attracted to. I wanted to give him a chance so I kept trying to tell him "Dude you have got to chill." He was sweet dude but he was super lonely and depressed and desperate for a relationship.

I told him yesterday I just wanted to be friends and I didn't want to date. He said I broke his heart.

Two weeks.

I know exactly how you're feeling. PM me if you wanna talk.

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