Your comment there made my day. Amazing read, as good a "rescue" as one can possibly try on the internet. I hope it helps him, incel mindset is very sad, self-defeating and spreading like a disease. It's hard to feel sympathy for people who instead of becoming more empathetic after knowing suffering (or commonly just growing pains with a terrible reaction attached and glorified) choose to sacrifice their needs just to spread that suffering in revenge, but they are real people that usually need help. Incel communities are centers for converting shy teens into toxic and misogynistic adults, but a lot of people manage to overgrow that mindset and posts like yours can go a long way to kick off that process. Thank you for spending time and energy trying to help someone whose way of thinking repulses you.