I forgot where I read it maybe on r/Tinder that the majority of girls put ¨looking for relationship only; no FWB or ONS¨ as a public facade and when youre in contact with these women long enough that theyll eventually ¨relent and will be down for FWB or ONS"

Obviously I as a woman found this insane and no longer went on that subreddit for meaningful advice. But this shows the inner workings of a large group of men. Pressure them enough and those silly women will let the men dictate the terms of the relationship. It feels awful thinking that 1. men think women do not know what they wants and 2. that women feel this pressure to change what they want in a tinder match. If I was younger and less secure in myself (tbh im still working on this) I could see myself relenting and giving in. Further giving men the idea that this is a totally okay thing to do.

Idk rant over.