I'm going off of his post and my intepretation that's all. I'm entitled to my opinion. For instance I had sex with a guy in college.. i began to think I was raped because we were both intoxicated.. at the end of the day I consented and we were BOTH intoxicated.. that doesn't mean i was raped. I liked him prior. Not instances are like this, but in this case for me. No I can't say it was rape. I tried to, but realized I would need a court case and this wasn't right to this person. I saw a persons college reputation RUINED because he was male and his best friend who was a female led him on forever and he finally made a move and he went to court, got expelled, and was called a rapist it isn't right. All I have is my own experiences.