23(M) Never experienced any real reciprocation or a relationship. I believe it's a superficial thing. People these days just want to be involved with whatever is most externally validating. Like nothing else matters to them. This is why I believe some of us who want true and real experiences and up losing out the most because while everyone else is cheating, breaking up, having one night stands, in toxic relationships; we are here understanding that we are not what they want.

People keep saying all the time how 'it's because of your confidence and shitty personality' but I don't see how that's truthful at all. or there being even any visible or physical evidence for it.

Reason being is because as humans we are attracted to what feels most fun and exhilarating. We are just not those kind of people and we never can be. For whatever reason the 'universe' or whatever you want to call it; has decided that only certain people with enough good looks, charisma, and status can experience relationships. Anyone who has none of that can never experience anything. Confidence you can develop. It doesn't make you anymore or any less attractive. Charisma you can't just 'develop' like people say 'everyone has a zest' like what the fuck does that even mean?

Some people just unfortunately are invisible to the dating world. It sucks having to go to work feeling so alone, knowing nothing will change and then coming home to an emptiness void. The same repetitive experience day after day. Even if you do have cool experiences with people or yourself; nobody still wants to associate with you realistically because you just can't ever be attractive enough for them.

I honestly believe dating is only for people who have external validation and nothing more.