Guys, how did you know you had met the one?

I don't know, but I've met someone recently that I think it might be.

We clicked immediately, hung out a few times, went on a date, had great chemistry, and astounding bedroom compatibility. We have similar world views, we're very curious about the world and how things work, and we want to spend our lives helping others. We never fight - some people think this may be a bad thing if things get bottled up - but I never feel like we even have conflict over anything. We're just always on the same wavelength and want the same things. We love to make each other happy, and I think about how lucky I am to have her, and she tells me the same thing...

I've been in bad relationships before, where jealousy has been a problem. But with her I've realized it's because other girls didn't meet my needs and would never assuage my fears about them hanging out with other people. With her I never feel that way. I trust her completely. I feel like I can give my all to her and she will never let me down. On my end, I want to do anything for her and make her happy.

I think we're great for each other. I've thought about our future together and I think it looks bright... We're in love for sure, and I would not hesitate to spend my life with her. If someone asked me if I thought she was the one, I'd reply "fuck yes" instantly, without even having to think about it.

The only downside is, we've been dating for only about 4 months and we're both about to graduate college... We have no idea where our lives are gonna take us over the next few years. We may move to complete opposite sides of the country. But if so, I still want to try and make things work. If the loneliness of a long distance relationship can be weathered successfully with anyone, I'd do it with her. I'd just pop the question now, but that's way too soon for me, and I want to wait things out and see if anything changes. If everything looks good, before graduation, I'll give her a ring and tell her I want to make it work no matter what happens. If not then I'll be a sad mother fucker, but I'll thank God or whoever for the opportunity to spend my senior year with an amazing woman, and be happy that I know what to look for in a life partner when the time is right.

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