You guys make my heart ache and I don't know how to communicate with you. Sincerely, an ENTP.

Yes! As an INFJ, I think I struggle with the fear of rejection a lot and mirror the vulnerability someone displays with me as to not rock the boat too much. But when I see someone take initiative in opening up and being their authentic self, I feel I can match that, and it excites me to not have to hold anything back. We have so much to share and are happy to do it, as long as it’s met with appreciation for the “meeting of minds” more than it is winning in a debate or competing in any sort.

INFJs are able to pick up on dishonesty and hesitancies in others a bit more keenly than most, I think — so when they sense you letting your walls down and you’re being your authentic self, it encourages them to do the same.

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