I’m not in long distance relationship but the always on app thing definitely caused problems
He was always chatting with other guys and I felt like being cheated on
I eventually just confronted him and said no more of this, and told him to delete the app
I deleted mine too to be fair
The relationship definitely got better as there’s no more “I think u are cheating on me” type of feelings constantly trying to overtake me
I can’t say the same for u as your situation is definitely more complicated but I think u need to talk through your issues and see whether your partner respects your problems
The worst thing is he just creates a new profile and continues to go on