You mean like a single person that you were destined to be with? No.

But there are, probably, lots of others whom are compatible and you could have / would have had a successful, long term relationship with.

I know i'm one to talk, but I don't think that looks and success have much to do with it. People are looking for red flags because, like you, they're tired of getting burned. If someone doesn't take care of themselves (looks) or can't hold down some kind of stable income (success), those are major turn aways.

But do keep in mind that, with the pandemic and shut downs, lots of folks are struggling out there. Between layoffs and social distancing, it's just been a rough year.