If your partner and or you didn’t finish it shouldn’t aggravate anyone it should be like a new quest that pops up (finish them) not to be corny all I’m saying is you should look forward to doing this rather than aggravation. Let’s say in this case the guy finished but you didn’t just tell them don’t be embarrassed or upset when my girlfriend would tell me this I almost would stand right up smack my hands together like ok let’s do this and I would please her until she got to pleasureville. All I’m saying is communication is key for everything in a relationship it’s a partnership and leaving your partner in the dust while you succeed (vice versa) is a no no.