Hell yes. I did not believe that any girl would ever be interested in me, so I completely missed or ignored any hint she made towards me, including her implying that she was a bit of a slut (her words, she bragged about doing several guys at the local football club at once etc)

Anyway, when we got down too it everything seemed fine until we were really going for it when Bam! She has a panic attack. Total freeze up, clamp up, and she starts crying. You can imagine wtf was going though my brain. I thought I'd broken her.

She then decides to reveal to me that she had acted out her rape fantasy with her previous boyfriend and father of her 2yo, and he'd decided that he really liked it and kept doing it to her. The only reason I didn't run screaming from the building was that we were in my bedroom. (now this sounds shitty but) Now I have a traumatized girlfriend on my hands and I couldn't end the relationship and leave cos that'd make it worse. For the next couple of months I stuck around, I never initiated sex with her, but when she did 50% of the time would have the same result. I couldn't show any kind of enjoyment, moan etc as that could set her off. Eventually she dumped me and I ran away as fast as I could.

20+ years later and I still have difficulty really letting myself go with my wife, or even asking for things that I like, as that shit is seared in my brain.