Bad people don't care about being better. If you're trying to be a better individual in any way, you're doing fantastically better than if you just didn't care.

If you ever feel that anger swell up inside of you (yknow, the kind of anger that feels good to act on), sit and ask yourself 'should I really be getting this worked up about it?' or 'do I really need to blow up on this person?' Most of the time, the answer is no.

Every day, in every way, make yourself be a greater person. If you don't, then who will?

Source: inherited narcissistic traits from my mother, and it took four or so broken/terrible relationships for me to realize that I'm the bad guy.