Hm, I've had 5 of these in the past 4 months, I'll explain my last two. My last one was an emo/sad/gothic chick, we matched on Tinder. Her looks were less better in person and I knew that I wouldn't want to date her but I still wanted to hook up. She actually mentioned at one point that she was intimidated by my looks, I knew that she thought I was very attractive. At that point it's really not hard as long as you don't fuck it up. Matched her energy all night, kept her laughing, found similarities to expand upon. We had a few drinks and after awhile I asked if she wanted to go back to my place to watch a movie. She agreed. At first she said she didn't have sex on the first date, and I told her that I was totally fine with that. After some making out etc, she said that she changed her mind. So done deal. Other one was one I was friends w/on FB. I would always flirt with her and offer to take her out to different dates etc. She would kinda respond but never really commit to anything. On one particularly horny day, I reached out and said how about I get us a nice hotel tonight and we check out this new club. She agreed as long as there were two beds. This one was very hot and as tall as me. When you get really attractive women and especially tall ones, you CANNOT show any signs of insecurity. I played it cool all night, same thing, matching her energy and making her laugh. We also got high at one point. By the end of the night she said she was hungry, we went to get some food at a local diner. After that we went back to the hotel and we definitely only used one bed. I think the key here is being confident and assertive but not in a desperate way. You want to be into her but also don't want to come off as just horny. You can bring up a little deep discussion if the moment is right, that'll bring your bond a little closer. Listen to what she says, pay attention, and maybe bring those topics up later in the date. Be interested in her, you should want to learn and know more about her and you should want her to know that you want her. Again this can't be in a creepy way like grabbing ass or shit like that. Make eye contact, check her body out, occassional hands around her hips, kissing when you see an opening, lead her but also give her space. As I'm writing this I feel funny because I do all of these things and probably more all subconsciously. I've just been trying to get laid consistently since I was15, 17 years ago and have I guess developed it. Before anyone says it's because I'm a tall attractive white guy, I'm not. I'm asian, 5'8 and a 7 to most, maybe an 8 if they are into asians.