I have a lot of female friends. A couple of them I've asked out after misreading the situation and we've stayed friends.
Although yes the friends I asked out are attractive
quite a few attractive female friends that I haven't asked out and never considered doing that to, because it was obvious there was no chemistry romantically either way
You're still mentioning female friends you are attracted to and would sleep with if the feelings were reciprocated. You want to fuck them/date them, they just don't want to fuck you or date you.
Should I, as the husband or boyfriend, be okay with the two of you hanging out one on one knowing that you would fuck her if she gave you the okay?