Ignore this idiot right here from top to bottom.

OP I do the exact same thing because, contrary to what this idiot who never worked out believes, jizzing DOES have a night and day difference on strength, stamina and muscle tone and it's common knowledge for gym rats and anyone doing contests.

(The chemistry is that testosterone moderates a lot of proccesses in the body involved with dopamine and the more testosterone in the body, the more dopamine is free to go around for other proccesses. That's the short version)

Just wait it out. In a month or two when lifting will lose its novelty again, I'm sure he'll be back to smacking dat ass regularly.