Not an affair as I've never been married, but I once had a sustained dalliance with a colleague once in the middle of a fairly long term relationship. In the words of Jay Z, if ive done it more than once im not going to lie like im a different person - i did it cos i thought it was fun, they were hot, we had great chemistry. To explain but not excuse, when i was younger i guess i didnt see the impact of it if no one knew.

A little while after i came to see that breaking their trust was bad and i shouldnt have done it. A fair amount of time had passed though and our relationship was kinda winding down so i thought there was no point basically planting it all on her to make myself feel better essentially. So i decided to just wear it.

I try not to judge people and hopefully wont be judged here too hard: no one is perfect, we make mistakes and things happen.

The sex was really really hot though. A real wank bank greatest hits