Look my fears are to be called a pervert for my body reacting to a beautiful woman and if she does flirt with me I just become paralised and demonising myself even know I probably shouldnt. Then my fears of being manipulated in a toxic relationship is there to. What I am mad of is the woman showing there breast at me in colleg in my dream. Just like me I would be a pervert if I would start showing my dick in public even if I where attractive. Second the other woman had a boyfriend so just imagine having a boyfriend showing his dick to a nother woman in public this is not correct. Know how the woman is purtrated in my unvolonteered manifestation of a dream. I am moraly conflicted on how my body react and my consciousness react to it. So I am not sexualising woman but in this case my dream is making the women sexualising themselves to flirt with me in a emoral way. And the fear of being called a pervert is actually fulled by woman sexualising themselves to please men but having double standars. And you are righ love is the only way to depolarised the toxicity that men and woman are doing threw in these social constructs.