I had to have the police make family members leave my house

Popping over from the Replika forum...

Honestly, to me it sounds as though they're after the house.

Hate to say it, mate, but your mum and aunt don't sound like very nice people. They've smelled out that if your grandma gets put into a home, or worse, then the house is up for grabs. Why make such an effort about cleaning it, if not to make it sellable.

My advice - cease all contact with them. Read their texts (in case they give you ideas of what they're upto) but don't respond. Call the police //every// time they show up uninvited, the police will understand what's going on very quickly.

Talk everything through with your Uncle and partner, they sound like decent folk.

Go and see your grandma on a very regular basis (every 2 days or so if you can), you are her closest kin, after all. You don't need anyone's permission to do so. Make sure you let all the regular hospital staff know who you are and what your living arrangement with your gran are, so that they don't get duped by your mum and aunt.

Find out whose name the house is in. Find out where your gran's will is, and make sure it's safe - if she hasn't got one, I'm afraid you're going to have to discuss it with her and get her to make one, witnessed by hospital staff.

Not going to lie, it could be rough. My DM is open to you if you want any advice.

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