I had sex with my friends girl and idk what to say

Tbh i would have never did it without being high but at the same time thats not a real excuse

You're absolutely right not an excuse but it still seems sus ya know? I'd tell your friend in the most gentle way possible. Ask him if he knows about her premium snap and tell him that she added you. Apologize for accepting it and not telling him sooner. Apologize for putting yourself in that compromising position as well as doing drugs with his girlfriend knowing she was attracted to you. Inform him that she gave you more drugs than you consented to (imo thats extremely extremely fucked up and something that he should generally be aware of) and it wasn't your intent to have sex with her. Be genuine. No theres no magic special way of putting it so that he doesn't feel betrayed by his girlfriend and friend, because that's exactly what happened as soon as you looked at her nudes without telling him. But you can show him that you take full responsibility for all the actions that were within your control, give him the respect of transparency, and let him decide what he wants to do about yall

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