HAE ever drifted apart from a friend who you were once so close with that once you stopped being friends it almost felt like you were going through a breakup?

Yeah, here's my story (quite a long story).

First i'll start of with a little "background" of myself. And I apologize for my bad English.. I changed schools when i was in the 4th year out of 6 in high school, 2 years before i got "betrayed" by my girl bf. I am a girl as well, and i'm not good in making friends. So in my 4th year in high school, i ended up in a class group with 2 other girls, which makes 3 of us, and 12 boys. Never been close to the other girls, i actually didn't know more than their name and age. And i became "friends" with a boy twin from my class. And by "friends" i mean: we hung out together at the spare times at school.

So, to continue. In some classes, like history class, we were joined by another class group. There were some other girls, not much though. There were 3 of them. 1 of them became my best friend. Then she changed class groups, so the classes we had together, were no more. She became friends with the girls in her new classgroup, and she introduced me to her new friends, so i got friends with them as well. 1 girl in my class group changed schools and the other girl changed class groups, so i was left alone. I was the only girl in a group of 13 boys.

Now i'm skipping to the "betrayal" part. In my 6th year we went on a school trip to Barcelona. As i didn't bring a small backpack, i left it at the hotel, so i did put my cellphone and wallet in my bf's backpack, because in the game, we had to run. We made a deal we should go grab a lunch together after the game.

We were divided into teams by our class group. So my friends were in another team. We played the game and we did arrive at the end point, and it was time for lunch. The boys in my team left, to find a place to grab a lunch, and i had to wait on my bf, because she had my stuff. They arrived an half an hour too late, together with the teachers.

I took my stuff and then she told me that she was going to have lunch with the people in her team, and that I couldn't come with them. They left and I left alone, alone in Barcelona, and i had no clue where i was and how i could go back to the hotel. I was lucky that the teachers still were at the end point of the game, and they brought me back to the hotel.

I really felt bad and betrayed. I was really mad at my bf. Luckily, i knew a girl from another class group a little bit. I Spent the rest of the trip with her. I ignored my bf, ignored the case she was sleeping in the same room as me. Her friends tried to make it up to me (in her place).

Never said another word to my 'bf' again, and her friends as well. This case is now 4 years ago and i still didn't forgive her.

What do you think, did I overreact?

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