Do you think happy ending massages should be legal or illegal?

Nope. You tell yourself whatever you need to. I’m just a woman. I have no clue what a woman feels when men create situations where they expect sexual contact. You didn’t even consider declining, did you. If you had stopped to consider whether this total stranger was experiencing legitimate joy at giving you a wank, would you still have “let” her do it? I doubt it. Most men are decent. But don’t kid yourself if you think you’re not lying to yourself right now about how that dynamic really broke down. You seriously, SERIOUSLY, think that this total stranger was spontaneously fulfilling both your desires. Um... I hate to tell you this, but... THINK.

I’m not saying this to be harsh. It really is in response to the initial question. There is illegality at the heart of these businesses. If you didn’t know before, now you do. I honestly thought that by sharing the inconvenient fact that a “happy ending” is NOT genuinely consensual in most situations, it will maybe let you be part of the solution instead of part of the problem. This sex act actually literally is A CRIME - whether you ask for it or kid yourself that she’s legitimately offering to do this for you out of the kindness of her heart. I’m telling you: we aren’t wired that way.

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