So Happy It's Thursday!

I already commented, but another current match situation I'd love to get feedback on...

I've been talking to a woman and we've had great chats and phone dates, and expressed attraction on a physical level, but she is a single divorced mother of two younger children and I'm a guy who has never been married and has no children. She has a lot on her plate at the moment (or so I feel) between a reputable career as well as taking care of her children that I do not see letting up. Her ex is currently overseas and will be for a while longer. When he returns, he will still be on the other side of the state, so it won't be much of a help on her end from the child care perspective during the week, plus he's got a drinking problem. Currently, when she is at work longer days, she schedules a sitter for the evening and night, and it seems her date nights incur during this window.

I am very transparent about everything because I am not that guy to lead anyone on, and wanted to get an idea of what she is looking for as well. I feel like I am being more realistic than she is about where this is headed, though. She ultimately wants to be in a relationship with someone, but I can't really see us doing more than something casual and having fun together (we've been very open about our sexual attraction.) She has been forthright that her time is limited and between kids and her career, those are where her priorities in time go. I respect that she wants a relationship, but foresee this scenario where her availability is restricted to a night or two she can book a sitter, and even that, that's kind of rough on me, because I'm not always available during weekdays. Really sounds like FWB territory would work best for us if she is down for it, but I am okay if it isn't.

/r/datingoverthirty Thread