We met at a time in life where having kids was the important thing (I didn't realize this before after the fact).
It was ok until we had our first daughter and then it turned to utter shit ... but my two daughter are awesome to this very day. So I see it as a win. We managed 7 years.
Marriage was replaced by a another 5 year relationship, but circumstances forced us to move in together and that killed it
Been mostly single for the last 5 years .. at least I get laid here and there, some of it turns into quite long term occasional FWBs, but relationshipwise I just don't get much interest these days ... It's fine tho :)