You need to find a cat that fits you and your needs, not just because the cat looks like your previous cat or is a specific breed. What if you get a Bengal and it turns out it has a completely different personality than your previous cat. Sounds to me you care more about "resurrecting" your previous cat than moving on and finding a new cat that can support you. Complaining about sex, color etc does make it seem superficial and makes me think you look for your old cat which isn't healthy.

Also, Bengals, as you know are one of the most expensive cat breeds out there. You can't complain about other people not supporting you purely on a breed you're pursuing while you're not looking at a cats personality which is way more important than looks. Do you want support or do you want a cat you can brag about?