You have a hard time finding a woman with the same interests as you, and then you finally meet one, except you are healthy and fit and she is more than 100lbs overweight, would you date her? Why or why not?

Nothing personally, but she could prolly lose a few lbs...

In all seriousness though. I feel like society looks at it weird for a skinny fit guy to date and overweight girl.

But this girl likes all the same stuff I like. She likes anime, manga, pizza which I like... and then a few other things I don't care for. Another comment said they want to start a healthy family and that's why they wouldn't date a girl like this. Personally I don't plan on having kids, but if i ever did, I'd agree with that comment. But since I don't, the weight probably shouldn't matter. Right? I don't know if she wants kids though, I guess that's something I should think about.

The only thing I have to lose is probably others opinions of me. They'll think stuff like "his standards are hella low for a guy that looks like that". So I guess it's whatever reputatiin I have that I'm going to lose. But maybe that doesn't matter either. I don't know. I guess i fall into peer pressure easily. So I'm dumb.

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