Hard to watch

I think it’s challenging as an American to understand why people don’t speak their mind. I understand that’s the cultural norm but I feel like throwing in the towel and giving up on someone based on a three day interaction without giving them the chance to change their behavior is intolerant. It is really tough for me to agree with that. Had she addressed it with him and said “listen, I am sensing that you aren’t the same person from the pods and aren’t willing to put in the time” and he STILL didn’t do anything, than I’d be all for it. This just seemed like “you aren’t doing what I want you to do but I don’t want to tell you what that is so I’m out” seemed a bit like mind games to me.

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