Harshest Text Message Ever Received?

Friend of mine, obviously a dick of you read the text below, sent this to a girl he was with for about a month, month and a half. I feel bad for her really, her self esteem must be destroyed.

Anyone done worse?

Sorry but I was just never that into you. I faked the whole thing. I was pretty disappointed after the first date, well actually right when I saw you if you remember, I didn't even smile or give you a hug I did like a half assed one. cause you look much much different in person than in pictures. You aren't bad looking, but not like the pics, it's basically two different people, I'm used to being with much better looking women, no offense, you're not bad looking, just not what I'm used to, and I wasn't going to downgrade. And there were some things you told me about you that I was turned off by.

Basically right when I saw you I decided I didn't want to see you again but still had to fake it and be a decent date so we could keep hanging out since I came up with the idea during the date of using you to get another girl back and just have you be a rebound and temporary distraction. I had been seeing this other girl that I went to school with, we've been with each other for quite a while, but I ended things with her, regretted it later, tried to get back with her, but she didn't want me back after that.

So when you and I hung out, I would take pictures of you and post them to snapchat so she could see me with another girl and get jealous. I did it on our second and third date. I took a pic of you cooking, and a vid of you bowling, but i blocked you from being able to see them. I never had a chance on the first cause we were face to face basically the whole time, but that's why I said lets get ice cream cause I was going to take a pic of you in line getting ice cream to post with some caption but that didn't work cause I never got the chance to get a pic without it being too obvious. That's another reason I didn't want to go to the movies with you, I couldn't take a good pic of you to post in a dark movie theater sitting next to each other. It's why I chose bowling cause you're backs turned to me and I could take a vid without you knowing. You might remember if you think back to it. I had my phone out in the kitchen, I thought you almost caught me taking a pic lol. Looked like you looked at me out of the corner of your eye when I was holding the phone out.

And I don't know if you remember me having my phone out for a bit while we were bowling. I'd never ever bring my phone out on a date like that, it's a turn off, it's rude, but that's what I was doing, taking a vid or pic and posting it so she could see it and make her jealous. And she viewed them, and it worked, I got her back. She texted me Merry Christmas after neither of us talking for like 3 weeks and asked me how I could be seeing another girl so soon and this other shit but she got over it and we talked from there and now we're good. And that's why I didn't want you coming in my house until my parents and sister were gone. They've seen the type of women I've been with, they know my type and what I've brought over and they'd be disappointed and a little confused why id bring you home, I just didn't want to be seen with you.

The reason I tagged you on stuff on Instagram was just so she could see me tagging another girl. And if you remember too, I usually did it at the same times on certain days, usually mornings, around 1-2 in the after noon, and sometimes like 11pm-12 pm. cause I know the girls daily schedule, when she usually wakes up on weekdays, when she's at work, when she's on break, when she goes to the gym, and when she typically checks IG. If you're wondering why we made out and cuddled even though I'm not even attracted to you, well I could deal with kissing and cuddling with a girl that I thought was just okay if it meant possibly fucking you just to add to the count since I like banging women with thick thighs even if there face is just a bit above average, and be with you just to take my mind off her for the mean time, and continue to fake it and try to be a good enough date to keep things going with you until I could get enough pics to make the girl jealous and have her back.

And lastly, again, the reason I texted you as If I were into you was just to make it as realistic as possible so I could have you around enough to get enough pics to make her jealous. And to keep me distracted and keep my mind off her. It's hard for me to be how I usually am around women im interested in, when I'm around a girl I'm not even attracted to or interested in. I hate to be like this and be this harsh, but just being 100% brutally honest though. If you looked the way you did in pictures I'd be attracted to you but you don't. I really looked forward to having the opportunity to post a pic to snapchat for her to see than to hang out with you. That was the main motive. So sorry for just wasting your time, using you, and having you around as just a temporary rebound.

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