Hmmm, I'm not saying it's that cut and dry. My intent is to say that things aren't as black and white as just...all women being guilty of what you say. And that preferring tallness isn't really as harmful as potentially liking childish traits; this can lead to pedophilia and grooming which is just morally messed up. Maybe neither is inherently evil, but one leads to actual evil more than the other. That, and divorces, once the wife grows too old, which is very much f*cked up. And it isn't even that uncommon. It's actually encouraged by some guys for some reason.

As for the height/size thing, men do tend to find petite women cuter, though I think I only saw like...one study on the subject. Something about the shorter, the more men pursued her? I guess it technically would be a neoteny trait. It's not really that less common, it's just subtle; the guy probably feels more masculine and that she's cuter/more approachable. And her frame itself is smaller which is almost always a plus to men. I have a very masculine, 5"7 frame. You can imagine that I feel like an ogre. Men are actually more wired to be open to having sex with more girls too regardless of being attracted enough to date them. There's that and tbh it usually is the hotter women that do have those hard "height" standards tbh. The women that have gotten a lot of attention. I can't say that enough. That's why you hear it being repeated so much.

Anyway...actual physical dimension have been illustrated in studies to be what men are attracted to in women, while men can actually change their demeanor, confidence, and/or presentation and be far more attractive for it...womens' attractiveness is more static. Do you hear incels ever talk about that? No. Ironically it's them crying about skull sizes and height and stuff. That stuff can matter, but, at least some of the ways they can be more attractive actually...works a bit more? And isn't skin-deep.

I think human nature is bad. I don't think guys are that much worse. But...see. I was treated like shit by boys all my life for no reason. Literally was a scared speech delayed girl that laid low and didn't speak but was always bullied for looking like an ugly pig. Even after losing weight recently I still have been called ugly out of the blue by men of ALL kinds when I was just trying to live my life. I have been said I look old and ghoulish...but, babies, little girls, and women...out in public they've never given me such reception. No looks of disgust and hate. Nope. I get smiles. I get helped. I get talked to. Now u know why I feel comfortable with saying what I do about guys; I used to not care about this stupid arbitrary gender politics a year ago. I was innocent, naive, but scarred, and now I'm just frustrated. I look old af and somewhat ugly. But am I that bad? I was thinking that they were just...arbitrary meanies n that other guys were nice. It's like guys were straight up offended and antagonized by my ugly looks.

So, look back at my little snippet of my life. I am biased, now. I think men will settle out of desperation but at this point I feel as if they tend to honestly see ugly women as more subhuman than, say, women see ugly men--to the point of being actual disgusting abominations worthy of being abused. And, whew, they have. Men are opportunists, they tend to need sex more, but, I honestly think they will struggle more to love someone they find ugly. I wish I didn't feel this way, but viscerally in reality, this is simply what I have experienced. I know incels have it bad but at least most of them have probably not experienced active attacks or disgust from women unless they were desperately trying to ask out random women (which is a mistake).

I mean maybe we're just a bunch of beggars in dumpster war, but it seems almost inevitable. Human nature is busted and when you combine people fueled by a series of vacuum thinktanks nothing is ever going to end well. That and the sexes honestly need different things, biologically. And tbh that's the hardest pill to swallow.